The Meaning of Sirri Marriage (Case Study of Sirri Marriage in Campor Village Subdistrict of Proppo Pamekasan)
Keywords:
Sirri Marriage, Value, Kyai, Book of MarriageAbstract
In the midst of the discourse will be the enactment of legislation that would criminalize perpetrators of the sirri marriage , sirri marriage until today is still interested in the community as a solution when the official wedding can not be done. Research carried out to investigate the practice of sirri marriage of the villagers at Campor village the Subdistrict of Proppo Pamekasan, the results shows that it is not just about personal considerations, but there are also the values and norms of society into individual sizes. Sirri marriage  practices at Campor village communities still exist because there are values of the society that supports it. For example is the notion that married is more sacred if married by a Kyai (Islamic Leader). While the implications is they don’t of marriage book as authentic evidence of the marriage, so their child could not have a birth certificate.
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